Now, "easy" is a pretty subjective descriptor. So I have to qualify that statement by saying that I mean "easiest" in the sense of "easiest from the perspective of the individual."
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I have held to this theory for some time now and increasingly believe in its validity. It dawned on me again today as I was considering whether or not to call AT&T about my shoddy internet connection. It goes out constantly. On one hand, having an unreliable and painfully-slow-when-it-works internet connection is a nuisance. On the other hand, doing something about it requires calling an 800 customer service line. So far, I've taken what I believe is the easiest path - live with crappy internet.
But I see this theory playing out all around me - in my own life and in the lives of others. Here are just a few examples:
Work. People who stay in jobs they hate do so because it's easier than taking a risk to go out and do something they would love. Those who chase their dreams do so because it's easier to flirt with poverty than be stuck in a crap job.
Health and Fitness. Those who exercise and stay fit do so because it's easier for them than being fat and out of shape. But many people stay fat and out of shape because it's easier than working out consistently and having good eating habits.
Marriage. People who work at having great marriages do so because the hard work of having and maintaining a marriage is easier for them than living in a bad one. Then there are people who just suffer through marriage because it's easier for them than putting in the hard work of marriage.
Spirituality. People who do what look like crazy things in obedience to God really do so because it's easier for them to do something crazy than to be disobedient and letting God down. And for others, saving face in front of peers is easier than obedience.
All of these areas are made of daily decisions, though. Every day you make decisions about your work. Every day you make decisions about your health and fitness. Every day you make decisions about your marriage. Every day you make decisions about your spirituality. And every time, I think you choose the path that's easiest for you, even if it seems hard to others.
Am I off my rocker here? Do you agree or disagree? If you agree, in what other areas do you see this theory at work? If you disagree, do explain.
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